There is a lot of partisanship going around these days. It can be a divisive headspinner! It has brought up for me the issue of the potential and probable divisiveness within each of us. That is the divisiveness between our archetypal feminine and archetypal masculine. The true feminine nature and true masculine nature has nothing […]
I have a statement that often confuses my clients: “Forgiveness is one of the most selfish things you can do.” What? Because we have the connotation that selfish is bad and forgiveness is good, there’s usually a disconnect as to how these two go together. Let me explain. I say that forgiveness is selfish because […]
Ho’o what? It’s pronounced exactly as it’s spelled including both Os at the beginning. It’s a Hawaiian word for a philosophical understanding that what’s coming at you is coming from you. Yep, that’s right! I bring on everything I experience: the good, the bad and the ugly. I do that with the energy of my […]
“The Future enters into us, in order to transform itself in us, long before it happens.” I read the above beautiful quote recently in the foreword of a book by Rainier Maria Rilke. It got me contemplating. I concluded that it is utterly true that my future enters me long before it transforms into my present […]
Connie Yang explains that while there’s always the option to remove someone with whom you’re in conflict from your life, the reconciliation tactics she learned from experience are worth trying first.